The Ethical Slut
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The Ethical Slut

Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

About this book

The defining guide to ethical non-monogamy, covering jealousy, communication, multiple loves, and the practical art of honest, consensual non-monogamy.

Key themes

  • Jealousy as an opportunity for self-knowledge, not a reason to close down
  • Negotiating agreements in non-monogamous relationships
  • The difference between compersion and jealousy — and how to cultivate the former
  • Building polyamorous community and chosen family
  • The ethics of full disclosure, consent, and ongoing renegotiation

About the author

Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton have been practicing and writing about ethical non-monogamy since the 1970s. The Ethical Slut, first published in 1997, shaped the modern polyamory movement.

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