The Conscious Parent
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The Conscious Parent

Dr. Shefali Tsabary

About this book

Dr. Shefali argues that parenting is not about raising children but about raising the parent. Children mirror our unresolved patterns — and their 'misbehavior' is often an invitation for us to heal.

Key themes

  • Children come through us, not from us — they are not our property
  • How our unresolved childhood wounds drive parenting reactions
  • Presence and mindfulness as the core parenting competency
  • Moving from fear-based to consciousness-based parenting
  • Children as our greatest teachers — if we're willing to be taught

About the author

Dr. Shefali Tsabary, PhD is a clinical psychologist trained at Columbia University, combining Eastern philosophy with Western psychological wisdom.

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